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Friday, August 5, 2011

Update

Yesterday was my post-op appointment with the ophthalmologist.  The doctor was very pleased with how well my eyelid is healing.  Now all of the ugly black stitches are gone.  Just the clear stitches are left.  Yeah!  No makeup and no swimming for awhile, but I'm thrilled with my quick recovery!

Later in the afternoon, I took Michael to the hospital for his allergy testing.  Coley agreed to meet me so he could hold Michael while he had his blood drawn.  The little guy was such a champ!  He didn't like having his arm immobilized, but he didn't even whimper!  Hopefully we'll hear something soon.

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

What a Week!

The good news is that as I write this, we are all okay... However, it has been a pretty wild week! 

Last Wednesday, July 27 (Abby's birthday), I had to have surgery on my right lower eyelid.  The doctor had to cut a wedge out of my eyelid to remove squamous cell carcinoma that appeared rather suddenly.  Not knowing how much he was going to need to cut before getting clear margins was scary. I was also a little nervous about how it would look when he was done.  He had to cut more than he originally thought he would because the tumor had a tail, but he was able to get it all the first time.  I had a patch on for one day.  As soon as the patch came off, I started ice packs (20 minutes on, 10 minutes off).  That's a lot of ice!  I have quite the black eye, but it looks like it is going to heal amazingly well!  Tomorrow is my first post-op appointment.  I'm hoping to get rid of a few stitches.... we'll see. :)

Last night, we had to have our dog put down.  Sydney has been my little four-legged companion for a little over nine years, so it was a pretty emotional experience.  I tried (rather unsuccessfully) to limit the tears because my eye is still so sensitive from the surgery.  She was becoming increasingly aggressive.  (We have several stories to tell.)  Then, Saturday night, Abby dropped one of her new birthday toys on the floor.  When Sydney decided to eat it, Abby tried to take it away.  She nipped Abby, leaving marks for several hours.  When Coley tried to pick up Sydney to remove her from the situation, she bit him and drew blood.  Coley talked to the intake coordinator at our local Humane Society and another lady who has a small dog pet rescue for quite awhile to see about the option of trying to rehabilitate her.  Neither person felt like it would be a successful option in Sydney's case.  As much as I love that crazy little animal, I have to think of the safety of my family first.  It was not a "happy" decision, but it was the right one.

So... last night after saying our tearful goodbyes to Sydney, we decided to have some comfort food for dinner.  Coley had to return to the hospital for a meeting while I made waffles for Abby and me.  Michael thought they looked pretty yummy, so I broke some up into little pieces for him to eat.  Not even an hour later, I was calling for an ambulance because he was having an acute allergic reaction (probably to the milk).  His eyes started swelling and it was all red around his lips.  Coley called about that time to say he was on his way home.  When I told him Michael was having a reaction, he calmly asked if his breathing was okay.  As I said, "Yes," Michael started coughing.  Coley asked if Michael was the one coughing and if that cough was new.  When I indicated it was Michael and that it was new, he worried that his airway might close.  At that point, I called 911 to hear, "We are experiencing a high volume of calls....... Please stay on the line....."  I think I waited at least a minute, but it seemed like an eternity.  When I told the dispatcher what was happening, she immediately had the paramedics on their way.  Coley arrived before the police and ambulance, so he was able to take Michael and assess the situation.  By the time paramedics arrived, we thought his airway would be okay, but we all thought it was best to transport him by ambulance.  I rode in the ambulance (my first ambulance ride) with a very frightened baby boy while Coley followed in our vehicle.  Our sweet neighbor kept Abby at home.  We were at the hospital for a couple of hours while they gave him Benadryl and a steroid to calm things down.  By the time they let us go home, Michael was sleeping very comfortably.  His eyes are still pretty red and swollen, but he is doing okay.  I am now armed with an EpiPen and Michael will be doing some allergy testing very soon.  My poor baby!

Here's hoping we have had enough excitement at our house for awhile!

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Look Who's 9 Months Old!


Even though I couldn't get Michael and Abby to look at the photographer together for pictures, we got some great shots of Michael.  He is growing so fast and is so much fun!

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Say CHEESE!.... Oh, Nevermind!

Last week, Michael had pictures taken for hitting the 9 month milestone.  The photographer tried to take a few pictures of Abigail and Michael together.  It was quite a circus to get them to look at the camera at the same time because they were having too much fun playing together.  Finally, she gave up and captured the moment.  This picture makes Mama's heart happy!

Friday, July 15, 2011

Tea Time with Some Friends


I just love Abigail's imagination.  Boredom is never an issue with her.  Here we have some unlikely friends-Pink and Purple Dinosaur are dining with Blue and Llama Llama.

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Mormon Tabernacle Choir in Palmyra

Last weekend, we were able to attend the Mormon Tabernacle Choir concert in Chautauqua.  The last time the choir performed in Chautauqua was the summer of 2007 (just a couple of months after we moved to Rochester).  I was 8 months pregnant with Abigail during our last adventure.  This time, we had Abigail and Michael with us!  They were both wonderful during the concert.

The day before the concert in Chautauqua, the choir stopped in Palmyra as they traveled.  It was a special treat for me because my friend, Kim, was traveling with her husband who sings in the choir.  They were not there for long, but it was great to visit with Kim and say hello to her husband.  I loved listening to the choir sing on Saturday at the concert, but it was an incredibly spriritual experience to hear the beautiful voices of the choir sing "Oh, How Lovely Was the Morning" just outside the Sacred Grove.  It was one of those special moments that I will never forget.  It also made me think about my dad because this was one of his favorite places to be.


Michael, Tara, and Abby listen to the choir sing in front of the frame house at the Smith Farm in Palmyra (right next to the Sacred Grove).



Tara (with Michael and Abby) and Kim at the Smith Farm in Palmyra

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Yummy Strawberries!

Just a few minutes from our house, there is a farm where we can pick our own strawberries.  Our homemade strawberry jam is just about gone, so it was a must to pick some fresh berries to make more.  As you can see, we had LOTS of help!
 Abby was Daddy's helper.  I guess she was looking for berries from a different angle.  You can't see all of the strawberry juice on her face.


Michael was Mommy's helper.  He thought it was really fun to pull on the leaves.  He wasn't so sure about the weeds tickling his feet.

The berries made yummy strawberry shortcake and beautiful strawberry jam.